Some conversation need to be had no matter how uncomfortable it can be at times, in order to improve and fight for equality in systems there have to be continuous conversations about it. However, that doesn't mean these conversations will be easy, with many different perspectives there has to be a sense of respect throughout the conversation and people must be willing to go into these conversations with an open mind. The exchanging of ideas will not be easy but it's part of being human, we all have different perspectives and opinions and it's only fair that hear them all out as long as no human is being harmed in the process, there are reasons why such conversations can be controversial but by remaining open to opposing sides there may be a way to find a common ground or even change some perspectives.
When disputes begin it's mainly due to how much about the subject the individuals truly know about it, due to the nature of some topics it's easy to misunderstand what the concept is especially thanks to social media, it's possible for many misunderstanding to stem from online debates especially when accurate information is not given. A lot of heated arguments stem from misunderstanding a person's point of view and since most arguments surrounding civil right, politics, and etc. happen through apps like Twitter or Instagram, it's very easy for the meaning to get lost since the individual is behind a screen so no tone or facial expressions can be easily seen/heard.
So, how is possible to talk about such controversial topics if assumptions are being made? There are a few thing individuals should do when partaking in difficult conversations, it's okay to be afraid or uncomfortable during them but it can always be a learning experience and besides you may or may not change your original stance thanks to the new information presented to you. When engaging in these conversations always be ready to listen and allow for the opposing side to finish their statement, be willing to accept any new information that you possibly did not know about and if you end up wondering what such things mean always ask questions, remember as long as there's mutual respect then this debate may be more insightful than just shouting over whose opinion is ultimately correct. Discourse is important, the more we continue to talk about such conversations then the more we are willing to change in order to establish justice for the common good of the country, or even the world as a whole. The more we talk about issues that matter then the less we will repeat the mistakes made in the past.